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<channel><title>Fathers4Equality Blog - Father Matters, child custody, fathers rights, shared parenting, divorce | Comments</title><description>A blog on recent family law changes in Australia designed to promote equal parenting child custody arrangements, and fairer child support 
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<title>Female law</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 10:25:06 AM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Frank</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Penis burning wife found NOT GUILTY of husband&#8217;s murder</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Female victims. Its been going on for years. <br /><br />I personally knew of two girls whom, in a preemptive and planned assault, covered a mans head with a pillow and cut his throat. <br /><br />It was attempted murder, plain and simple. They intended to kill him. However, a really lenient sentence was handed down ........................get this, attempted manslaughter. <br /><br />You couldn't make this stuff up.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Female victims. Its been going on for years. <br /><br />I personally knew of two girls whom, in a preemptive and planned assault, covered a mans head with a pillow and cut his throat. <br /><br />It was attempted murder, plain and simple. They intended to kill him. However, a really lenient sentence was handed down ........................get this, attempted manslaughter. <br /><br />You couldn't make this stuff up.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Stupid bitch</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 03:20:10 AM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Tanis Lae</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Penis burning wife found NOT GUILTY of husband&#8217;s murder</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Keep these stupid bitches in check: { <a href="http://manhood101.com" target="_blank" title="Link: manhood101.com">Link</a> }]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Keep these stupid bitches in check: { <a href="http://manhood101.com" target="_blank" title="Link: manhood101.com">Link</a> }]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Paw</title>
<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 11:22:30 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>ManteeBlob</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Penis burning wife found NOT GUILTY of husband&#8217;s murder</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Paw, how right you are. <br /><br />Incensed, how wrong you are.<br /><br />She got away with murder.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Paw, how right you are. <br /><br />Incensed, how wrong you are.<br /><br />She got away with murder.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Oh Please</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 02:41:25 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Molly</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Daughter of candidate Laury Bais says he should put family first </dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[This man is poison. I certainly do not believe for one minute that he paid appropriate child support to Jessica's mother. Good on Jessica for taking a stand. He only believes in two things, money and his penis. That is why he brags about his children - not because he loves them, but they are solid evidence of his supposed 'manhood'. I wonder if he still accuses women of wanting to steal his genes, of wanting to have sex with him just to get pregnant. He loves being Mr Flash with the Cash. To think he has the audacity to run for parliament on a christian ticket is offensive to the extreme - this man is not christian, but a self-serving, immature liar. That he has managed to worm his way into a position of influence and power is just a joke. Nothing Lizzy says about his treatment of his employees surprises me in the least - he is an arrogant creep who would sell his grandmother if he could turn a profit.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[This man is poison. I certainly do not believe for one minute that he paid appropriate child support to Jessica's mother. Good on Jessica for taking a stand. He only believes in two things, money and his penis. That is why he brags about his children - not because he loves them, but they are solid evidence of his supposed 'manhood'. I wonder if he still accuses women of wanting to steal his genes, of wanting to have sex with him just to get pregnant. He loves being Mr Flash with the Cash. To think he has the audacity to run for parliament on a christian ticket is offensive to the extreme - this man is not christian, but a self-serving, immature liar. That he has managed to worm his way into a position of influence and power is just a joke. Nothing Lizzy says about his treatment of his employees surprises me in the least - he is an arrogant creep who would sell his grandmother if he could turn a profit.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>where are my kids</title>
<pubDate>Thu, 5 Jan 2012 06:29:32 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Children must see dad, like it or not: Family Court</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[My x is a control freak. we have 2 boys and she uses them to hurt me. she trys to make out that im a piece of shit but the fact is ive found someone else,had a child again and apart from never being able to see my 2 boys anymore we're pretty happy. the x has not moved on so well, has had numerous relationships with other men which has upset the kids when they get attached and then never see them again. mediation was a waste of time due to her being a bullshit genius, never felt so frustrated and sore due to biteing my toungue. now because i didnt agree with mediation she wont let me know where they live,ignores phone contact and has supervised visits with my parents so that my parents dont bring my sons jamie and shannyn to see there father. i just hope sarah of melton victoria either grows up soon]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[My x is a control freak. we have 2 boys and she uses them to hurt me. she trys to make out that im a piece of shit but the fact is ive found someone else,had a child again and apart from never being able to see my 2 boys anymore we're pretty happy. the x has not moved on so well, has had numerous relationships with other men which has upset the kids when they get attached and then never see them again. mediation was a waste of time due to her being a bullshit genius, never felt so frustrated and sore due to biteing my toungue. now because i didnt agree with mediation she wont let me know where they live,ignores phone contact and has supervised visits with my parents so that my parents dont bring my sons jamie and shannyn to see there father. i just hope sarah of melton victoria either grows up soon]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Whoa!</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 10:15:21 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Provacyl Review</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Daddy dearest: Many men are finding out they are not the father after all</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Well, let's hope all of this is not because of the loss of libido in men and a parallel increase of demand to make love by their women! LOL! Just kidding. This has deeper insinuations than a joke or two! Well detailed post mate! Cheers! :)]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Well, let's hope all of this is not because of the loss of libido in men and a parallel increase of demand to make love by their women! LOL! Just kidding. This has deeper insinuations than a joke or two! Well detailed post mate! Cheers! :)]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Yes</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 09:57:23 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>www.f4e.com.au</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Just dont hand the kids back next time and make an application for full care of the kids, she cant just move particularly if they are in school. If she wants to go by herself good and well and she can see ur kids every second weekend then]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Just dont hand the kids back next time and make an application for full care of the kids, she cant just move particularly if they are in school. If she wants to go by herself good and well and she can see ur kids every second weekend then]]></content:encoded>
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<title>kids moving away</title>
<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 08:52:21 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>troy dubbelde</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>www.f4e.com.au</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Ex wife tells me that the current arrangement ( 6 days a forghtnight) wiLl change next month as she is moving 3 hours away. Have I got a leg to stand on ???]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Ex wife tells me that the current arrangement ( 6 days a forghtnight) wiLl change next month as she is moving 3 hours away. Have I got a leg to stand on ???]]></content:encoded>
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<title>trying to keep kids from me</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2011 05:29:44 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Francesco Parise</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Children must see dad, like it or not: Family Court</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[I'm in the same situation as Todd Christmann. my ex has moved interstate, and won't respond to any of my efforts to contact my three daughters. What can i do?]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[I'm in the same situation as Todd Christmann. my ex has moved interstate, and won't respond to any of my efforts to contact my three daughters. What can i do?]]></content:encoded>
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<title>childrern&#8217;s rights</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 9 Dec 2011 09:40:24 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Jack</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Top 10 mistakes by Fathers seeking Shared Parenting in Australia</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Our experience as grandparents of one of our divorced sons children under 18, spell out to us that in this feminine dominated society (the white ribbon people are a good example of hypocrisy for alleging that men are the only violent people in a relationship)and similarly, many other feminist groups. Men have absolutely no rights in Tasmania against all of the points above , the Court orders and mediation sessions were futile and it was all a waste of time and money. The rights of the child do not get observed, the lawyers were parasites feasting on and promoting conflict. It was all about money as she came into the 12 year marriage with nothing and wanted 80% property settlement.<br /><br />Thank goodness she cannot touch him now and the children are too old now for the false allegations of child abuse to stick. We and him never see the two girls however we do see our grandson week about. The children suffer and the girls have been poisoned against their father. In retrospect it may have been better as some have done to walk away from it, and welcome the children if they come back as they get older and wiser realising they have been conned. Lou is 100% right!]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Our experience as grandparents of one of our divorced sons children under 18, spell out to us that in this feminine dominated society (the white ribbon people are a good example of hypocrisy for alleging that men are the only violent people in a relationship)and similarly, many other feminist groups. Men have absolutely no rights in Tasmania against all of the points above , the Court orders and mediation sessions were futile and it was all a waste of time and money. The rights of the child do not get observed, the lawyers were parasites feasting on and promoting conflict. It was all about money as she came into the 12 year marriage with nothing and wanted 80% property settlement.<br /><br />Thank goodness she cannot touch him now and the children are too old now for the false allegations of child abuse to stick. We and him never see the two girls however we do see our grandson week about. The children suffer and the girls have been poisoned against their father. In retrospect it may have been better as some have done to walk away from it, and welcome the children if they come back as they get older and wiser realising they have been conned. Lou is 100% right!]]></content:encoded>
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<title>It&#8217;s not only fathers in this position</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 2 Dec 2011 07:24:57 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Nadine</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Top 10 mistakes by Fathers seeking Shared Parenting in Australia</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[I to am in the same boat as you men but I am the mother. My daughter come home from an access with her father and said and gave a demonstration of oral sex. I was horrified.The courts and useless lawyers took my daugther away from me and gave her to her father and for the last four years I have fought the system in victoria and got no where. I did not make up what my daughter demonstrated or said she was 3 at the time. My heart is very broken I couldn't protect her and have been punished by not allowing to be with her alone until recently. I would never do anything to hurt her. I have also spent 170 plus thousand and got to the point of only just keeping my house. Yet the father has denied me access, and broken court orders many times over, free legal service and brain washed my daughter agaisnt me. It just hurts so much that he can get away with it. I know I am a one of a kind case as its usally the men going through it. I feel all your pain its so cruel There is no such thing as the best intrest of the child.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[I to am in the same boat as you men but I am the mother. My daughter come home from an access with her father and said and gave a demonstration of oral sex. I was horrified.The courts and useless lawyers took my daugther away from me and gave her to her father and for the last four years I have fought the system in victoria and got no where. I did not make up what my daughter demonstrated or said she was 3 at the time. My heart is very broken I couldn't protect her and have been punished by not allowing to be with her alone until recently. I would never do anything to hurt her. I have also spent 170 plus thousand and got to the point of only just keeping my house. Yet the father has denied me access, and broken court orders many times over, free legal service and brain washed my daughter agaisnt me. It just hurts so much that he can get away with it. I know I am a one of a kind case as its usally the men going through it. I feel all your pain its so cruel There is no such thing as the best intrest of the child.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>violent women</title>
<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 04:04:33 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Sharon</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Reminders that Women can be Evil too! Top 10 Most Evil Women in History</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[How wonderfully emotive, you seem to forget the hundreds of thousands of men in history, you have adopted different values to men and women a hand full of women compared to the history of MANKIND. You have forgoten Eve and how about your mother, sister, aunt, grandmother and daughter. Such bullshit truly takes us back to the days when a women was a mans property and the children she gave birth to and raised belonged to him - its called slavery. I suggest every mother buy her daughter the book mothers on trial, and fathers give up trying to MOTHER because intill they can carry a baby full term, give birth, lactate and feed the baby they will never be a MOTHER.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[How wonderfully emotive, you seem to forget the hundreds of thousands of men in history, you have adopted different values to men and women a hand full of women compared to the history of MANKIND. You have forgoten Eve and how about your mother, sister, aunt, grandmother and daughter. Such bullshit truly takes us back to the days when a women was a mans property and the children she gave birth to and raised belonged to him - its called slavery. I suggest every mother buy her daughter the book mothers on trial, and fathers give up trying to MOTHER because intill they can carry a baby full term, give birth, lactate and feed the baby they will never be a MOTHER.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>MANY MORE EVIL WOMEN OUT THERE</title>
<pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2011 04:22:19 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Jodi Chalmers</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Reminders that Women can be Evil too! Top 10 Most Evil Women in History</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[My evil eldest daughter should be added to this list. She is pure evil. I believe that she was born evil and this causes me to hang my head in shame that I could have given birth to this unabiding evil peice of human garbage.<br /><br />She abducted my two children, lives with a peodophile and lied in court to obtain the children. <br /><br />I have done nothing wrong and yet the court decided she would make a better parent.<br /><br />Yes, there are many evil women and there should be more exposure to ensure the public are aware that women are more likely to commit crimes of the most henious, cruel and basically insane by comparision to normal behaviour of any person, gender aside.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[My evil eldest daughter should be added to this list. She is pure evil. I believe that she was born evil and this causes me to hang my head in shame that I could have given birth to this unabiding evil peice of human garbage.<br /><br />She abducted my two children, lives with a peodophile and lied in court to obtain the children. <br /><br />I have done nothing wrong and yet the court decided she would make a better parent.<br /><br />Yes, there are many evil women and there should be more exposure to ensure the public are aware that women are more likely to commit crimes of the most henious, cruel and basically insane by comparision to normal behaviour of any person, gender aside.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>need help</title>
<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 08:48:38 AM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>jason</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Courts treat men poorly: father</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[please call im jason i really need advise 0415925818]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[please call im jason i really need advise 0415925818]]></content:encoded>
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<title>the only ones you hurt are the children!</title>
<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 02:59:32 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>belinda</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Father&#8217;s battle for 50-50 custody long and expensive</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[to all the dad's i give you hope. my mother did things like what you all speak of. from age 8 to 18 i did not see my dad. On the few times we spoke my mum would tell me what to say to him and i would always end up in tears. I have struggled having any relationship with a man. My mum told me you can not have a male as a friend. WTF? So in other words just sleep with them. My mum never prepaired me for pubity. She was never a loving mum, she may have love for me in her own way. But she was not a warm hearted person in general. I can only remember 1 person who she had as a friend 1. I can count on 1 hand how many times we saw her. My mum was and still is an alcoholic. My dad had 1 glass of port once in his 59yrs never smoked never did drugs, but he did physically abuse my mum. I witnessed and stepped in on there last arguement at age 8. I don't blame her for leaving him it was the best thing for her! I blame her for all the things she did to us so she could get back at him. She had no heart and did not care and still does not care of the pain she inflicted on me too. In the end it only made me see that the bond i have with my dad can not and will not be broken, even when it seems that way. In my childhood of divorced parents and bad experience as a child has done something good. Made me stop this cycle from continuing. I'm proud to say, i have. Well at least, so far. My daughter's father and i have be able to work things out without the court. We found the child support agency at the first stages of process were willing to help if we wanted to fight each other by dobbing each other in for what ever reason. We have too much love for our daughter to cause any more pain other than the pain of never getting both mum and dad in same house. I see that i stopped her from the pain i suffered but there is still other problems she will have through not having both parents. I am a strong women and i fight for my babies to always see there fathers. I will never fight against that knowing exactly what it feels like to go without my dad in my life. My mother has tried to tell me not to let him take her to another state to see family on his side. I say pull ya head in and see the more family members your child has is only the more love your child/children get. That is what it is all about love. You made the baby with love so dont turn on the innocent who never asked to be here. Do the right thing by your child. I was once told the best revenge is to live a happy life. How sweet it is. Fathers, times will change your children will come looking for answer. Stupid women who claim to love there kids and don't allow them the love of there fathers. Shame on you all. Beware ladies you don't want to have your child turn on you from your on spiteful hate.]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[to all the dad's i give you hope. my mother did things like what you all speak of. from age 8 to 18 i did not see my dad. On the few times we spoke my mum would tell me what to say to him and i would always end up in tears. I have struggled having any relationship with a man. My mum told me you can not have a male as a friend. WTF? So in other words just sleep with them. My mum never prepaired me for pubity. She was never a loving mum, she may have love for me in her own way. But she was not a warm hearted person in general. I can only remember 1 person who she had as a friend 1. I can count on 1 hand how many times we saw her. My mum was and still is an alcoholic. My dad had 1 glass of port once in his 59yrs never smoked never did drugs, but he did physically abuse my mum. I witnessed and stepped in on there last arguement at age 8. I don't blame her for leaving him it was the best thing for her! I blame her for all the things she did to us so she could get back at him. She had no heart and did not care and still does not care of the pain she inflicted on me too. In the end it only made me see that the bond i have with my dad can not and will not be broken, even when it seems that way. In my childhood of divorced parents and bad experience as a child has done something good. Made me stop this cycle from continuing. I'm proud to say, i have. Well at least, so far. My daughter's father and i have be able to work things out without the court. We found the child support agency at the first stages of process were willing to help if we wanted to fight each other by dobbing each other in for what ever reason. We have too much love for our daughter to cause any more pain other than the pain of never getting both mum and dad in same house. I see that i stopped her from the pain i suffered but there is still other problems she will have through not having both parents. I am a strong women and i fight for my babies to always see there fathers. I will never fight against that knowing exactly what it feels like to go without my dad in my life. My mother has tried to tell me not to let him take her to another state to see family on his side. I say pull ya head in and see the more family members your child has is only the more love your child/children get. That is what it is all about love. You made the baby with love so dont turn on the innocent who never asked to be here. Do the right thing by your child. I was once told the best revenge is to live a happy life. How sweet it is. Fathers, times will change your children will come looking for answer. Stupid women who claim to love there kids and don't allow them the love of there fathers. Shame on you all. Beware ladies you don't want to have your child turn on you from your on spiteful hate.]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Systems broken</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 12:04:02 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Top 10 mistakes by Fathers seeking Shared Parenting in Australia</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[The Court places an unrealistic demand upon the non-custodial parent. The parent with the child can be a resistant as they like, with hold everything from access to information regarding the child and the non-custodial parent cannot do anything about it. The Court will not address the issues in anything that resembles a timely fashion. I raised concerns with the Court and the other parent in February. The Court refuses to entertain discussions regarding the case because it values it procedures more than the best interests of the child. The other parent revels in this process because nothing is with held from them. The other parent has all the time in the world. Free legals, financially secure if you are a decent father and do not with hold child support. The other party makes life as difficult as possible for you and the Court has an expectation that you behave in a moderate fashion. But for how long? How long as a parent are you expected to be positive? You recieve NO information regarding your child such as schooling, medical, day to day activities regardless of what you have in place in your interium orders. You can watch your child growing more distant every visit because the other parent has made the arrangements so onerous that the child resents spending time with you. But yet again you are advised to be positive, be moderate. The Court has an unrealistic view on how much a non-custodial parent should bare, no wonder non-custodial parents go postal and then you a wrong again. I was told directly by the Court appointed Family Consultant, it has NOTHING to do with being fair. Is that what the Court expects parents to teach their children, do whatever it takes to get what you want, bugger what happens to others?]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[The Court places an unrealistic demand upon the non-custodial parent. The parent with the child can be a resistant as they like, with hold everything from access to information regarding the child and the non-custodial parent cannot do anything about it. The Court will not address the issues in anything that resembles a timely fashion. I raised concerns with the Court and the other parent in February. The Court refuses to entertain discussions regarding the case because it values it procedures more than the best interests of the child. The other parent revels in this process because nothing is with held from them. The other parent has all the time in the world. Free legals, financially secure if you are a decent father and do not with hold child support. The other party makes life as difficult as possible for you and the Court has an expectation that you behave in a moderate fashion. But for how long? How long as a parent are you expected to be positive? You recieve NO information regarding your child such as schooling, medical, day to day activities regardless of what you have in place in your interium orders. You can watch your child growing more distant every visit because the other parent has made the arrangements so onerous that the child resents spending time with you. But yet again you are advised to be positive, be moderate. The Court has an unrealistic view on how much a non-custodial parent should bare, no wonder non-custodial parents go postal and then you a wrong again. I was told directly by the Court appointed Family Consultant, it has NOTHING to do with being fair. Is that what the Court expects parents to teach their children, do whatever it takes to get what you want, bugger what happens to others?]]></content:encoded>
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<title>Shared care doesnt always work!</title>
<pubDate>Tue, 4 Oct 2011 02:11:38 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Miki</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Children must see dad, like it or not: Family Court</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[Shared care in my opinion is far from always being the best thing for the child! Yes sometimes it can work but not always. How is it in the childs best interests to have parents constantly quarelling over them? To have parents who raise them in totally different ways? <br /><br />I left my alcoholic abusive ex when my daughter was only 15 months old she is now 8, has never seen her since (his choice) however by law he can go to court, get shared care at any point, is this fair on a child who despises him? NO WAY. Where are the abandonment laws? he should be stripped of all parental rights and responsibilities now that would be fair]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[Shared care in my opinion is far from always being the best thing for the child! Yes sometimes it can work but not always. How is it in the childs best interests to have parents constantly quarelling over them? To have parents who raise them in totally different ways? <br /><br />I left my alcoholic abusive ex when my daughter was only 15 months old she is now 8, has never seen her since (his choice) however by law he can go to court, get shared care at any point, is this fair on a child who despises him? NO WAY. Where are the abandonment laws? he should be stripped of all parental rights and responsibilities now that would be fair]]></content:encoded>
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<title>INTROSPECTION</title>
<pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2011 12:48:06 AM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>gRAHAM </dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Top 10 mistakes by Fathers seeking Shared Parenting in Australia</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[GO FUCK YOURSELVES]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[GO FUCK YOURSELVES]]></content:encoded>
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<title>im sorry dad</title>
<pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2011 04:52:22 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>jayden</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Female abuse against Males - double community standards? - Must Watch story !</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[dad i feel sad mum did this]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[dad i feel sad mum did this]]></content:encoded>
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<title>the child</title>
<pubDate>Mon, 12 Sep 2011 07:40:28 PM +1100</pubDate>
<dc:creator>teresa</dc:creator>
<dc:subject>Children must see dad, like it or not: Family Court</dc:subject>
<description><![CDATA[to all the mothers and fathers out there please stop messing with your children they are not pawns they are human lives who have the right to be with there mother and father i am a child from one of these relationships and all it did was fuck me up and confuse me i have had 2 divorces and can not have stable relationships with men i would never do this to my child she sees her father when ever and he has as much right to her as i do it takes two to make a baby fathers have the same rights as us women all we do is carry the child but it took a male to create it PLEASE dont let your children get fucked up like i did]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[to all the mothers and fathers out there please stop messing with your children they are not pawns they are human lives who have the right to be with there mother and father i am a child from one of these relationships and all it did was fuck me up and confuse me i have had 2 divorces and can not have stable relationships with men i would never do this to my child she sees her father when ever and he has as much right to her as i do it takes two to make a baby fathers have the same rights as us women all we do is carry the child but it took a male to create it PLEASE dont let your children get fucked up like i did]]></content:encoded>
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